Private reflection

A personal place to notice what matters

Use the private-by-default Diary and reflection tools to pause, name an experience and decide what—if anything—you want to share.

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Private by default

Reflection starts with your own space

A Diary entry is not a message to your partner. It gives you room to write about a feeling, a pattern, a boundary or a moment you want to understand before you decide what comes next. Linking with a partner does not create unrestricted access to this personal space.

What reflection can support

Move from a reaction towards a clearer choice

Notice the moment

Record what happened and what changed for you without needing an immediate verdict.

Name what matters

Explore the need, value, concern or boundary underneath the first reaction.

Choose a next step

Decide whether to pause, ask a question, try a guided activity or share something deliberately.

Deliberate sharing

You decide when personal reflection becomes shared action

Some learning is useful to practise together, but personal writing is not automatically made visible. When a supported sharing control is available, use it intentionally and share only what feels appropriate for the purpose. A partner invitation or shared activity never turns the Diary into a monitoring feed.

Connected to the journey

Reflection can inform learning without becoming a label

Private Diary use sits alongside Personal Insights, guided practice, reports and AI Companion support. These tools can help you prepare clearer words or identify a manageable action, but they do not diagnose a person or decide what a relationship means.

Safety boundary

Privacy does not replace appropriate support

Do not use a shared exercise to manage active violence, coercive control, stalking or immediate danger. Protect personal information and move to appropriate local emergency, specialist or professional support when the situation requires it.

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Keep reflection close at hand.

Use the private-by-default Diary and reflection tools in the app, then decide what—if anything—you want to share.